Couples Making Love

“The American bedroom has become a national disaster area,” according to Victor Gold, sexual healing instructor who teaches erotic spirituality. On the “Mind, Body and Soul Show,” Victor shared his knowledge on couples making love so they can learn to savor and extend orgasms to experience an altered state of consciousness that leads to higher spirituality. “Very few have formal instruction on making love, but get their education from extremely dubious sources,” he said. Those sources include parents, religious leaders, pornography, the street, movies and unknowing friends and family.

Also, many sexual programs are based on misguided beliefs and erroneous assumptions that have lead to the current state of affairs. In the most comprehensive sex survey since 1948 (the Kinsey Report), statistics suggest that 40% of today’s women and 30% of men have sexual issues such as no interest, inability to reach orgasm, premature ejaculation as well as other difficulties. Even though most businesses know that sex sells, they are not talking about the real thing. Victor describes Tantric sex and teaches skills to “savor and extend the journey of arousal and change conceptual reality.”

Describing a sexual experience that became a spiritual one, Victor said, “in 1974, during sex, my physical body dissolved and became a vibrating, dancing vessel. I couldn’t tell where my body ended and my partner’s body began. This experience was of divinity and sent Victor on his search to discover what had happened.

There are erroneous beliefs that need to be altered to achieve better sexual practices. Victor’s Potency Principals of sexual energetic guidelines bridge the gap between sex and spirit. There are 10 points to board the “vehicle to divine sexual expression.” He shared four. The first is that male ejaculation is not the highest option when making love. When ejaculation occurs it results in a loss of vital energy, leaving the ejaculator depleted. Second, Victor said there is a bigger and better orgasm waiting on the other side for those who can attain seminal retention. Male ejaculation is not the most ecstatic moment. Ejaculation and orgasm need not be the same. They are two distinct physical processes. “Once we learn how to substitute orgasms for ejaculation we can retain our energy,” he said. Finally, the most disputed point, is that women are sexually stronger than men. For one thing, they don’t need to maintain an erection. Also, women don’t lose their energy when making love.

In Victor’s lessons he teaches breathing techniques and other exercises that enhance making love. Changing intention is key. Combining all he teaches, males learn how to channel energy to their highest chakra centers which go up and not out. “It opens people’s hearts… gets their “heart on” and creates joyful orgasms that open to spirituality. For further instruction, Victor has written a book, "The Potency Principles: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power."

Tips on Public Speaking

“Your Voice is Your Calling Card” is Suzann Rye’s new book giving people tips on public speaking, launching on Tuesday, June 9th and is the message she shared on “The Mind, Body and Soul Show.” International singing star, best-selling author and coach of voice and performance, Suzann promotes freedom by teaching people to nurture their own personal freedom in all they want to do and be. “I help people learn to be free in themselves by teaching them to express themselves more freely and authentically,” she said.

She referred to the voice as the mirror to the soul. “Your voice is your calling card, Suzann said when it comes to public speaking. People present themselves through their voice. There is an energy behind words, not just a voice and body language. Beyond traditional speaker’s training, which doesn’t go inside of a person, Suzann asks these questions: Who is saying these words? What is the energy behind them? Why is this person nervous, or happy or worried? Why don’t people get this message? The answers to these and other questions reflect more than just what is being said.

There are ways to enhance vocal experience, Suzann said. One thing is by learning how to use breath to support the voice properly. Shallow breathing reveals an energy block. Proper breathing techniques fuel the body and provide oxygen for the brain. Practicing yoga and special breathing techniques stimulate voice to become confident and convincing, which “puts us in a much better position to help, inspire and teach people as well as allowing us to speak for long periods of time without stress or strain. Improper breathing creates problems,” she said.

Pitch, resonance and sound are key elements to voice. Women are often encouraged to lower their natural pitch because a lower pitch is said to be more appealing, but Suzann said, “don’t force it (your pitch) down. Allow your voice to be relaxed and natural and in the area it belongs.” Resonance adds warmth to the voice. It comes from the chest and causes vibrations. It is deep and rich and beyond the surface. Sound is what colors your voice, depending on where it comes from. It is that distinctive quality that is heard in each voice as in music.

Learning Suzann’s freedom techniques and tips on public speaking can inspire self-confidence that comes from within. By working on the reasons why, it simply happens. By guiding people in a direction to help them be who they are and do what they want, not what others want or by following conventional ideas of success, the “freedom that is created is the freedom to be oneself.” That is true confidence.

Suzann Rye has been involved with all kinds of music including rock, soul, R & B, Blues, and she became a pop sensation singing before audiences that number in the hundreds of thousands. She said her life purpose is to share her creativity. When she had gained fame in the pop world, she said that after a time she began to feel intellectually starved. “I am very creative,” she said. “I love writing and creating music. I like coaching and making a difference with people.”

Suzann’s new book hit’s the shelves Tuesday, June 9th, 2009,

Listening Skills

Happy laughter hit the airwaves when Spiritual Teacher Angelica Rose interviewed with Coach Steve Toth on the “Mind, Body and Soul Show.“I like to have fun,” Angelica said. Besides joy, Angelica’s message teaches communication in businesses and relationships. Specializing in creative marketing, Angelica helps businesses and people move into their greatness.

Angelica sees her own beauty. Using her five senses as well as her ability to see, hear and feel things that go beyond, Angelica helps others find their beauty too, which she describes as discovering “who you are and who you are not.” She said, “beauty is the reflection of inner work.” She helps people get to know themselves and their businesses and make them the best they can be through creative marketing.

“I like to see people move to higher consciousness and move out the roles of drama kings and drama queens,” Angelica said. By coaching people she teaches them to be interdependent, not dependent. She empowers them by making them feel more than they are, not less than they are. She teaches the importance of relationships, which is the heart-felt communication that moves into who people truly are, whether is it a group or an individual.

The ability to listen and to develop listening skills is key to discovery. Angelica’s formula for listening is called LOVE.

L -- Listening
O -- Observing
V -- Verifying
E -- Empathizing

Listening, or hearing the words, is to be done in an attentive manner, not selectively, which accounts for 7% of the art of listening. Observing the body language is 55%, and voice tone and volume is 38% of the picture. Finally empathizing means that the listener relates through understanding -- what it would feel like to be the other person. “Be compassionate, ”she said“, that means that when you listen people feel cared for and nurtured.

Many agendas can be hiding when someone is talking. The listener might be busy with what’s going on in their head. They might be agreeing or disagreeing, judging what the speaker is wearing, how they speak or even focusing on themselves. “It is the responsibility of the listener to take the attention off themselves and put it on the person who is talking,” she said. “The responsibility of the speaker is to make sure that what they are saying is being understood.”

Angelica has two books to her credit -- “Living Life As You Always Dreamed,” and “Secrets to Running a Successful Business.” Her message of love, communication and compassion can teach people diversity and take them into areas that they’ve never even imagined. “What’s important to know, is what is unique about each individual,” she said.